At the age of 65, he shared that he never had a home. His mother was an abusive parent and he was always afraid of going back home. When he got married, he could never have a stable relationship with his parents. At the age of 70, they felt that, they were few things kept at home and they were …
Do not compensate for your absence in your child’s life. Be there for him. Or else, the child will not need you in the future.
A mother shared an incident that shook me. She is a working mom and as a couple, they are earning well. So the child has lots of toys. Her child breaks many toys and they buy more. So one, she broke a toy by mistake and her child was very furious and started hitting her. We may ignore a 4 …
Detachment does not come from not loving. It comes from surrendering and getting detached from the results. Love is the essence of this being.
Someone said that we shall neither love someone nor hate someone. Fair enough. I kept quiet because sometimes, people are not ready to listen, they just want to share. But then again and again. I asked him, do you think, we can live without love? We have this need both ways. We feel empty if we are unable to love. …
When you feel unhappy about what you do not have, look around and see what you already have. You will be happy and grateful.
Someone contacted me about her shopping habits. She shared that she was going through some financial troubles but she was unable to control her habit of shopping on a whim. So many times she would find out that she already had that in her cupboard. One of the lady contacted that she was having daily argument with her husband. She …
Accept life. Accept all the pain, love, joy, challenges, problems. It’s still beautiful.
We went for a holiday and it was a long drive. It’s tiring and exhausted with two little girls with all their biological needs and food needs while we are traveling. There was a time when I had started feeling fear of traveling because of all this. I wondered I would be furthermore exhausted in taking care of them if …
When people hurt you, do not wait for their Karma to come back. Focus on making a better life for yourself.
WE all have been there. We all have been hurt by someone. And sometimes, that someone is always there and we feel that someone has never felt that he/she has done wrong. Sometimes, we feel so wounded and we are unable to do anything and we feel that we are the right one and the other one is the wrong …
Relationships are not beautiful on their own. We need to work upon them to make them beautiful.
Q: Why are relationships failing these days? There could be many reasons. People feel they have done enough, and they cannot do anymore. But the reality is we all need to continue doing whatever we can for the relationship. They expect the relationship to be something and when it does not turn out that way, it fails. We all need …
Keep setting new goals, keep growing. Every day will be worth it.
One gentleman shared that for 10 years he was doubling his business turn over every year. But then it stopped and then for 5 years he was stangnant, and he wondered why his business stopped growing. But during the discussions he shared that he was feeling tired. He wondered if he could run like that again. He did not even …
When we stand by the truth, God stands by us. When we stand by lies, we are on our own.
One gentleman asked me, why do we have to speak the truth if a lie can help us and get us out of the situation. Well, it’s true. But the first fact is its a lie, and we know it. The second thing is eventually, it falls flat on the face. Have you experienced then whenever you have spoken a …
Do not feel bad when you need the money and ask for it in your prayers. Feel grateful when you receive it.
He was going through the toughest phase of his life financially. At the age of 35, he had no work. His children were very small, and he wondered how he would manage. He asked if it was right to ask God for money? I asked him what’s wrong with that? If he needs health, he can ask for health. If …
Awareness of knowing that he is with me and everything will be fine gives us the strength to fight every battle of life.
One gentleman was very worried. He was having lots of fears. He was dealing with lots of things in life. He was going through one of the toughest phases he could think of. I asked him, why are you worried and he shared that he wondered if things did not improve. He wondered if he failed in life. I asked …
A true human will always help others in healing their pain not otherwise.
Met a poor pandit ji (Priest of a temple), who had become further poor during pandemic. Temples were closed and no one was inviting them at home for various purposes. He barely had money for his own expenses. However, he saw some migratory workers who were sitting in cold, and he wondered how could he help. He was left with …