Marriages are tricky. We all try to save them at every cost. But sometimes it becomes very difficult. A lady called up. She has a 8 years old child. She used to face problems with her mother in law and her husband started an affair. The reason he gave was that he could not tolerate all the fights. He wanted …
Never ignore your mental health. A happy and peaceful mind is as important as a healthy body. One cannot exist without another.
A gentleman was all healthy. He had an athletic body. At the age of 23 his father died. He had to take the responsibility of his family. They had good money flow and it was a recurring income. Financially there was no change. However, he felt responsible for his mother, sister and his father’s other family members. He was doing …
Having faith in him is not optional. We would keep discovering that always. We are who he is.
Q: Can we not believe in God? No, it is not possible. We always believe and we always know that there is a power who is taking care of the entire system. We believe that there are miracles happening. We believe that Karma is happening. We believe that somehwre he is taking care of us and we will be fine. …
Be somebody’s sunshine, not anyone’s darkness.
Met a girl. She was just 28 years old. She was helping everyone, she was laughing with everyone and she was doing all she can to make anyone smile. It was not to gain some appreciation but it was genuinely to make people smile. When she spoke to me, she had many problems. She had been through pains. I asked …
Desire to have a future your way sows the seeds of unwanted. Surrender and focus on the karma now.
He was an honest man and then one day he met his friend from school. They had started together with similar financial backgrounds. However, he himself lived in a small two-bedroom apartment at the age of 38 but his friend had made a big house and had all the abundance of life. He asked his friend the reason and he …
His love for me is more than my love for me. Faith brings everything together with love.
Sometimes, I feel I am so selfish that I love him, and maybe I love him because I need him. My faith increases when I needed him and he is there. But then I wonder what did he need from me? Nothing. He just wanted to be there. He just wanted to see me smile. He just loves me and …
The best way to help yourself is by helping others. Keep doing all the good you can.
One lady was operated. Something had gone wrong and since then she was unable to walk properly. The doctors said that she would have to manage with that throughout her life. She was feeling very depressed because she could not run or walk stairs. She could barely walk. So one day, she was sitting and crying and she prayed to …
Make a home for your family, not just a place to sleep.
At the age of 65, he shared that he never had a home. His mother was an abusive parent and he was always afraid of going back home. When he got married, he could never have a stable relationship with his parents. At the age of 70, they felt that, they were few things kept at home and they were …
Do not compensate for your absence in your child’s life. Be there for him. Or else, the child will not need you in the future.
A mother shared an incident that shook me. She is a working mom and as a couple, they are earning well. So the child has lots of toys. Her child breaks many toys and they buy more. So one, she broke a toy by mistake and her child was very furious and started hitting her. We may ignore a 4 …
Detachment does not come from not loving. It comes from surrendering and getting detached from the results. Love is the essence of this being.
Someone said that we shall neither love someone nor hate someone. Fair enough. I kept quiet because sometimes, people are not ready to listen, they just want to share. But then again and again. I asked him, do you think, we can live without love? We have this need both ways. We feel empty if we are unable to love. …
When you feel unhappy about what you do not have, look around and see what you already have. You will be happy and grateful.
Someone contacted me about her shopping habits. She shared that she was going through some financial troubles but she was unable to control her habit of shopping on a whim. So many times she would find out that she already had that in her cupboard. One of the lady contacted that she was having daily argument with her husband. She …
Accept life. Accept all the pain, love, joy, challenges, problems. It’s still beautiful.
We went for a holiday and it was a long drive. It’s tiring and exhausted with two little girls with all their biological needs and food needs while we are traveling. There was a time when I had started feeling fear of traveling because of all this. I wondered I would be furthermore exhausted in taking care of them if …