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I feel sad when I see people are not genuine in their relationships. Be it with their spouses, parents, work or anything else. Its not that I have not been in-genuine in my life ever. In younger days, I was. Then I faced the consequences and then I learned my lesson. i could see what was coming from where in …
Few things in life need to be done to get it right and they are not an option. Problems happen when we consider them as an option. Like being there for children when they grow up. It is not an option. We have to be there. If we are not there for them, they grow up most of the time …
He was always very proud of his son. He always said that he was a perfect son. His son, always studied hard, making his parents proud. Got admission in best college, then a very good job. Always called back home, respected everyone in the family. No one could have asked for a better son. But then his son chose his …
Every time, she did something for her husband, they ended up having a fight. She wondered why! Whenever she did something, she did with a resistance. She felt that she was forced to do something as others had asked. She really did not feel like doing something because of their scarred relationship. She did everything with anger and she received …
Two sisters got married to two brothers. They both were welcomed. So one day, their father came and met them. One looked very happy and one looked very disturbed. The father wondered what’s the reason. One shared that, she was very sad and unhappy in that house as she had lots of work. She never got time to rest. The …
Rumi said “Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change others. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” Yes, this is what we learn with age. When we are young, we are disturbed because of others behavior. We feel bad, when someone says something, we feel bad when someone does not fulfil our expectations. We feel very …
Few times when I have surrendered deeply When I was going through financial troubles and I felt like I could not manage it more. I cried sitting in front of him and said, I cannot manage it more, please take over from here. I could not get up for a long time. I do not know for how long I …
My mother in law passed away 2 years back and my husband has still not been able to handle the grief completely. He feels emotional when he talks about his mother. He feels sad that after her death he realized how much a mother does. When he brushes he thinks of her, that she taught him how to brush teeth, …
She hated her mother in law so much that even after she no longer lived with her, she kept fighting with her husband because of her. He kept telling her, let’s move on in life. She slipped into depression and she wondered why it was happening to her. He hated his friend a lot. They had started a business together …
One gentleman asked why his brother has everything in life and he does not have anything. His brother’s business is flourishing, his children are well settled, he has a good relationship with his wife and everyone respects him in the city. As per him, they both belonged to the same family but no one wanted his advise, his children did …
So a teenage girl called up, wanted to know, how she can start improving her life. I wondered at this age, why she had such question. So I asked her the purpose of that question. She shared that she has seen lots of people suffering in her life. She has seen bad marriages, she has seen failed people doing many …
He called and asked, why no one likes me. I asked him, what do you mean by no one. He thought for a while and he realized he was talking mainly about his children. he was separated from his wife and they had a bad marriage and divorce. As per him, his wife was taking out her anger through their …