One gentleman asked a question. He shared that whenever he had helped someone, it has backfired. He always had to face humiliation. Why is it so? It reminded me of a story. There was a king. He was a beloved king and had his kingdom spanning many small kingdoms. Everyone wondered how he became such a famous and big king. …
Heal your wounds. Do not leave the wounds unattended. Whether it’s physical or emotional.
After 30 years of marriage, they were still fighting about the problems they faced when they got married. They were in a joint family set up for the initial five years. She had to face a lot of adjustment issues and she felt that her husband did not take a stand for her where he should have taken. They never …
“We need to overcome our fears and grow in life or the fears will overcome us and grow.
My daughter is almost seven years old. Last year, she told me Mumma I want to play in the car and I have some toys there. She went out and I was waiting for her. For 10 minutes when I did not hear her voice, I went out and saw that she was suffocated and screaming inside the car. She …
We will still be in the darkness if we have not found the place of light within.
He was a frequent visitor to many places of religion. He read many spiritual books. He kept saying that I am looking for peace. I asked him, are you looking for peace or you have not found any yet? He said that I feel very restless and that’s why I keep looking. What is making you restless and what are …
If our heart isn’t in it, we haven’t done it. The result is in proportion to how much heart we have put into it.
My daughter loves coloring and she loves making different crafts. So she was making this painting and she made it with a lot of patience. she really had her heart into it. It came out very beautiful. So she wanted to make another one because she was excited about all the accolades. But this time, she was tired and she …
We all need to make an effort to understand our loved ones and it would solve many issues in life.
My daughter is almost seven. She looked irritated these days and it was irritating everyone. because she was expressing her irritation by screaming and shouting every day and hitting her twin. So I wondered if she was bothered about something. I asked her if she was upset. has someone said something and many more things. She finally shared that in …
Every moment is a gift. It gives you an opportunity to be better and make things better.
She was a small child and a very naughty one. Everyone was kind of upset because every moment she would do something which would create another menace. When asked, she simply said, every moment is special and I am making it further special. I am having fun at every moment. Looking at her made everyone realize, how special life is. …
When you get hurt, instead of blaming the person, ask yourself why it is hurting you. It will be easy to heal.
She was hurt and grieving. She was having continuous fights with her husband. Her husband told her that his family had done bad things to her and now, they no longer lived together, he had no role in that, so why was she still fighting with him? Well, she did not know the reason. She also wondered and did not …
A relationship is not about comparison and equality. It is about love, commitment and dedication.
After 23 years of marriage, they were getting separated. They had two children. The elder one was 21 years old. They always fought. The husband tried to tell her that she was important to him and she always proved she was equal. Her parents told her that she is no lesser than anyone and she should not get snubbed. If …
No one can have a strong relationship without having to fight for it.
He grew up in a patriarchal rich family. He was told that he had to keep his wife under control and also if he would listen to her, he would be henpecked. He also did not need her, she needed him more. He needed her only to have children, which he could have anywhere. He did not treat his wife …
One day we all have to face what we have been fearing most. So better we handle that now.
He wanted to be a job but his family situation became like this and he had to join his father in the business. His father also kept taunting him that he had to come became he had nowhere else to go. Somewhere, their equation was not coming together. He slipped into depression, kept working, kept complaining, and kept piling up …
A relationship is created on the basis of how two people treat each other in those times of crisis.
They were in a joint family. It was a big family. Three brothers, their wives, and their father’s brother’s family. There were many children and yes, the daughters-in-law were supposed to listen to the elders and there were always some clashes. DILs felt that whatever they did was never enough. Amidst all this, one created a very beautiful relationship with …