It was her 18th birthday and she was feeling very special about it. Her parents wanted her to feel happy so wanted to support her. In that she forgot that they also had emotions. Two people can never think alike and do same things. So her mother while preparing for the grand party, did not do many things as per her but did a lot, was always her target. (Mothers are generally the soft targets for everyone). She kept telling her mother, you keep spoiling my things. You would spoil my reputation. You do not need to do anything. Not to mention this was not said in respectful tone. Finally, her mother broke down one day and took a back seat.
He was very protective for his 2 years old son. He wanted his son to be perfect. So if his father taught anything to his son (grandchild), he always shouted back saying he was spoiling his son’s life. Things like freely playing in park, things like eating with hands etc. Finally the old man started staying away from grandson. The man forgot that his father had similar emotions for him when he was small.
She decorated her home well. She had lots of small decoration pieces at home, glasswares in the kitchen and many more delicate things. She was very possessive of them and she wanted everything to be very clean. No servant wanted to work there because she always told them that if they break it, they would have to pay the price. They were always under the fear. Whoso ever worked there was never happy.
We may see similar things around us many a times and we also might do similar things on occasions. But we forget that what’s the priority. We have forgotten the value of human emotions. Mother is more important than birthday. If she is happy and few things are here and there like it’s red instead of pink it’s fine. If the son is learning to eat with hands also along with fork, it’s good. He is learning to get connected with roots too. IF something is broken in house let it be. It is more important than everyone working under fear and not willing to work. The energy of the house will be so stressed out whole day otherwise.
Always know what really matters. Just do not get into the heat of the moment.
