A lady said that my old friend is organizing a tour. She is asking me to come. I do not feel like going and i feel bad for saying no. But i do not like that group, so I can’t go. So what’s the purpose of that group and tour? To be happy! But if you are then what’s the pint in doing it. What would give you happiness? To be at home with my family! Then do it!
One gentleman was in job and he wanted to change. He had started feeling low in this job as he was feeling that he was not growing. So why are you not changing? He was hired as a reference by someone when he did not have a job! And you must be grateful for that. But for that can you see yourself in same job all your life? If not, then why not now? Because when you start feeling resistance, it would anyway start turning into negative and before it turns into a negative experience from both the sides, you should leave when both the sides are happy. He got the point.
Two brothers were living together with their wives. The younger one’s wife asked him that we should get separated soon and he asked for the reason. She said that differences have just started happening and before things become very bad we should look for a separate option. Her husband said that right now, we are able to manage, so let’s stay. However, the happiness started falling apart and so did the relationship. They were not happy staying together but for the stake of being with each other, they kept doing that. Eventually they reached to a stage that no one wanted to see each other’s face.
Whatever, example, we take anything done without happiness will never lead to good results. So if you are happy doing it do it or else not worth doing it.
