They were two brothers doing joint business. (This situation is so common which I am about to share). One brother did not play fair in business. The other one kept supporting him. His friends asked him to get out and live separately. He was always about family which was fair enough. Everyone suggested that if you would move out, you would be better mentally and you would be able to focus on your business more. You would be able to give better attention to your family. He said that he could deal with it and he was peaceful. But he was not. He was full of anger inside and he was full of what his brother had done to him. One day he felt further angry when his son was sick and his brother denied any financial help. Next day he decided to move out. Not to mention, what happened to his brother’s family after that. He grew by leaps and bounds.
One girl was always bullied in school and then in office. Sometimes we develop such vibrations internally that we start attracting such events in our own energy. One day she decided no more. She was nice, it did not mean that she did not know, everyone else’s weak points. So finally, she decided to speak up. So one day, when everyone was bullying her, she told them what right they had to talk to her like that. She would not tolerate any more of that. She spoke up about everyone’s things and no one had any thing to say after that. But after that day, no one in her office tried making fun of her. As soon as she started feeling that peace inside, she got a better job. She wondered that till then she wanted to change out of fear and she did not get but when she let all that go, she could move and here everything was just so much better with her higher role and salary.
WE do not have to accept others negativity. If we are nice, we can be nice to the people to the extent it does not erode us of our mental peace. But if something started settling deep into our mind and interfering in other things, we have every right to maintain peace and step away from negativity. There is no moral obligation in that. Because we are not helping anyone by staying angry inside. We can only make this world better when we are happy and peaceful.
