I have twin girls who are 3.5 years old. They teach me about being a mother everyday.
Though I knew it, but I can see it in their everyday behavior now.
I am scared of dogs and somehow, i am unable to control my fear whenever I face even a smallest one. So they are also developing that fear. Even if I say it’s ok, it’s in vain.
The way I talk to them, they talk to me. So I have to be very nice with my words.
The way I dress up, they want to dress up same way.
They want to eat what i eat, so they have started taking wheat grass and Amla. (Which is kind of difficult juice for kids I realized)
The way I talk to support staff, they also follow that.
They have their own personalities but their behavior is shaping up with my behavior. My thought process is becoming their thought process.
I try to teach them good things but I have to be good myself first for them to be good.
I learn it everyday, I have to be a good human being, a good mother, a good person, a n honest person, a hardworking person, if I want them to be one. They cannot grow up otherwise.
So it’s for all the parents. BE whatever you want your kids to be.
