He got answers and in those answers he proved to himself that his brother was so much better than him and in many ways he told himself, he was not good enough. Which means he got further frustrated. He felt further low in life. So finally when he contacted, I asked him, what are you getting from this analysis which you have been doing for over years in your mind? I am not judging whether you did the right or wrong. I just would like to know, what’s the result. So he confessed that this analysis meant more frustration in life.
So from where he was supposed to start? Watching what he was thinking.
So the next question was what did he want?
He wanted better business, a better relationship with his wife and kids and better health. Over the time, his piled up anger had lead to many diseases in his body. What he realized was that not even once he was thinking about what he wanted. All the time he was thinking about what he hated in his life.
But if he is not spending his energy on what he wanted, how would he get that. So first he had to reverse his thought process from what he did not want to what he wanted. Gradually, his energy started aligning.
When his energy aligned, the outer environment also aligned. This definitely brought a change in him and life.
So spend your thought process on what you want and what’s important to you. Not on what you do not want. that’s like a wastage.
