Two friend invited me for a cup of tea and I was very excited to meet them. When I went there, we all exchanged pleasantries and hugged and started talking. Everyone was excited and we started talking after tea and snacks. So the conversation shifted to people (Which happens lots of times) and they started talking about what was bad in everyone’s life. I tried participating for sometime and then I could not and then i tried changing the topic to some neutral things like kids and then food and many things. But it again shifted to people. Finally I asked, can we talk to about better things. Now, I was in a fix, if you say something, it sounds like a lecture and you are trying to prove yourself you are better and if you do not, you know everyone is hurting himself or herself only in this conversation. They both were lost and finally I asked, where is this conversation helping anyone? IS it helping us or is it helping the people we are talking about? Why are we having it? Are we trying to prove we do not have problems in lives and we have never acted stupid? Do we think that we are flawless? They were quiet!
So what shall we talk about? I said we can talk about things which can help others. So they both went silent and said we do not know what to talk then. This is the irony of our upbringing. We do not know how to talk positive in a way to help each other.
So what can help or heal people and their lives. The answer is love.
So if they were our loved ones, what would we want? We would want them to be happy. So atleast think of them in a perfect happy situation instead of seeing it as a problem. So just by thoughts we will start helping? Yes. Thoughts are the most powerful tool we have. Negativity comes from thoughts first. So here it goes:
When you touch someone, have an intention to give love and heal. Tell yourself, may this person gets healed. may his all pains get healed. When you see, see that person in light rather than in darkness and you will see his healing happening. See with love. Talk with love and you will you are of help to everyone and everything around.
Be a healer of love here. This is what this world needs.
