One gentleman who had a very negative view of this world asked how could his life become positive. He looked down at beggar, he looked down at someone doing good. For him everything was bad and everyone was upto something bad.
The answer is simple, he has to start thinking positive. This world will always have good and bad. I can never say there wouldn’t be any bad. We also would experience both good and bad. A day is complete with both day and night. If someone appreciates, he cannot disregard nights. We get the complete experience with day and night. Similarly, we get the complete experience of this Universe or world with it’s both good and bad. With only good, we would not even realize it’s good and we may start finding faults in good too. (Most of the kids hate their families but learn to appreciate after they have faced harsh realities of life).
We see only what we want to see. We see bad, it means we wanted to see bad. If you really want to see the other side of this world, change what you want to see. Why dow e feel bad about a beggar? Look at the pain he/she might be going through! When we ask for something from someone, even if its our own money, we feel hesitant, they have to live on that everyday. How much emotional pain they must be going through. We have no right to judge anyone.
Now, how we are able to ignore when we love someone like own child? Because we love them.
So if you really want to change how you feel and think about everything. see them as your own rather than someone else’s. You would feel that love inside and then you see this world. How you look at your own house, look at this world as own house and then see it. If there is a problem, you would not like to sit and talk bad about it, you would like to change it, fix it. Then you would feel actual love for everything. See everything with love and then this everything will change for you. You love it and everything will love you back.
After that you can see the change in your own life, own mind and how you feel about everything.
