That’s the worst thing we can do to self..living in the past….good or bad..its dead and buried..even if you think past was good…its still a ghost and we don’t live with ghosts….if BJP shackles the govt on Bofors issue we hate it as for how long…if congress carries forward on Indira Gandhi we hate it because that’s over too..past is past and dead and buried….bad past has to be released on behest of making a pleasant present..you need to forgive the ones whom you think have hurt you..not because you are generous..but because its hurting you to think of them…why is it difficult to forgive…we are unable to forgive the ones who were closest to us…you wont mind forgiving a stranger who stepped onto your foot in the market…release the past, forgive for yourself not for others..
Why do we need to forget good one…so many times I have seen people cursing present saying good old days…in the old age or young age …they do that….haven’t you noticed you are making present miserable by living in past..because you think you do not have a good present…you forget that..good or bad its dead n should be buried..all what you got is present…and live in that or else you are missing out on life…if you can do something it is now…past cannot help you in changing things..
Release your past and live in present…that’s a gift you can give to yourself..