He lived alone at the age of 70. His two sons lived nearby and no one wanted to be near by him. His daughters did not appreciate or welcomed him when ever he visited them bearing gifts. His wife lived alone but she mentioned clearly, she would have nothing to do with him. He always talked about, how much he had done for others and how badly, everyone treated him and was still treating him. But deep down he was scared, that at this age he was living alone. So a wise man asked him, everyone has done so many mistakes but have you done any mistakes or not? Your children do not want to meet you and your wife does not want to live with you, there must be something wrong, you also must have done. How is it possible that you have done so much for everyone and still no one appreciates you. The gentleman got furious and told the wise man that he did not want to hear any such thing after the destiny had been so bad!
People grow old and they become wiser. I guess this is how it is supposed to be. How do we grow wiser? We face the challanges and we learn from the mistakes. We accept own mistakes and deep down we all know, what wrong we have done. We learn that by doing what, what would life bring back. And that is how we learn. We wow to never repeat those mistakes and old people guide others also for that. But for that we need to surrender the ego and see own mistakes. If someone does not care about own mistakes and keeps blaming others for everything bad happening in life will never have the wisdom required at the old age. Also, this life is about learning> If we are not learning, we will never be able to improve our lives. The patterns in the lives improve when we improve our learning.
Stop blaming for whats happening in your life. There will always be a reason. See whats happening to you and how you can correct at your end. How you can correct your own mistakes. How you can grow with love. How you can integrate more truth and honesty in life. When we start learningthe lessons the life has been tryinmg us to teach, the life starts improving too.
