One girl met an old school friend by chance after marriage. At that time she was with her husband. Oblivion to his feelings, she met old friend with great joy and introduced to her husband too. Her husband had grown up in a very closed environment and did not take it well. As per him, if a boy and girl had been friends there had been much more in between them. Now, he always looked at his with with suspicion. He would check her mobile, listen to her if she was on phone, would keep a check on where she was going. Finally when she could not take it, she confronted him and he said that you had an affair and you are hiding it from me. He just assumed a hell from one casual situation.
A lady told to her husband, i do not want to goto a party which his family was giving. The reason was she was not well. However, he assumed that she did not respect his family enough.
One boy proposed a girl after few months of friendship and the girl did not say anything. the boy assumed that she did not like it and he ended the friendship too. He never asked her or talked to her after that. After 25 years when they met again, the girl cried and said that, that day out of fear she could not say anything but she tried communicating her yes in many ways to him after that only if he would have allowed any communication.
There could be many situations in which we just assume due to our past experiences and we imply that on others too. Assumptions lead to unnecessary pain. So in relationship instead of assuming, always trust the words and ask if there is any doubt. Do not build a belief on the basis of assumption. It may just not be true.
