He was into depression for last three years. He met a girl during his college days and they had a long relationship of 5 years. He was first the man in her life and she always appreciated him. But after all these years she felt that she does not know if he was the best. Because she had never met anyone else, So finally she said that she has found someone better and moved on. He went into a shock because he was planning his life with her. He stopped going to work, his health started falling apart and he stopped talking to his family too. He would keep himself locked in a room.
In such scenarios either people slip into depression or think of committing suicide too.
But here are few questions:
1. Is it worth hurting yourself so much for someone who left you
2. Is it worth valuing someone who did not value you at all
3. Why are you evaluating yourself from the perspective of someone who did not value you (Like asking the question, why did he/she leave me, what did I lack)
4. Why do we ignore people who are with us at such times
5. Should we be grateful for the people who are with us, supporting us (May be shouting at us out of frustration at that time) or should we be crying over someone who did not care for us
In life we keep losing some and we keep gaining some. If we would focus on what we have lost, we would never be able to see what we have gained. In any difficult situation, ask yourself what have I gained in this. May be you have more love from your loved ones than the one you have lost?
I understand there is a pain because we have done so much for someone but we do not have an option. We have to get up, see around what is there, mend our hearts and value the precious life. It is not worth wasting life over people who have left us.
Please value your life and take pride in who you are. You are the perfect creation of God, created with so much love. Value that.
