She was full of anger as her kids always told her, what do you do whole day? You have achieved nothing. Before having children she was working at a senior level with a company. But to give a better upbringing to her kids, she left the job and decided to be a full time mom. Now, to hear this after 20 years of dedication was very shattering for her. (I think lots of mothers go through this)
He joined his father’s company as a CEO. He was young and talented still he knew it was a gift. He was working hard and trying to be a part of the team. Still he had fears that he was young and his company had many experienced people. So as soon as someone would try to suggest him something, he would get hyper (His own fear would start looming over his head that he was young, so he felt that people were suggesting to him as he was young)
One 35 years old gentleman was very short tempered. As soon as he would hear anything about himself, he would get angry.
In all such scenarios, the only thing was, they did not have confidence or trust on themselves. So they had insecurities. Now, with insecurities and lack of confidence, they viewed everyone from that perspective. But to handle that, peacefully, first they had to develop peace within and that came only when they started trusting ownself. So what they did?
They worked on their own strengths
They knew their strengths
They knew their weaknesses after (Which really kept them grounded)
They knew why they were doing what they were doing
They started seeing ownself from own perspective rather than what others were thinking
They trusted their own work
They focused on developing own strengths
The mother also started focusing on why she did what she did and also what she was doing then rather than what kids were saying (She did not get into the game of proving herself)
Once they knew ownself it was easy to stay stable even when someone else said something. After that they did not have to doubt others intentions too.
