HE loved her a lot and did everything he could to make her happy. When they married, he did not have enough money also. He worked hard and made it. They had everything flowing in. However, no one knows what luck has in store for us. She cheated on him and left him for someone else. He was angry, sad and frustrated. He wanted revenge. But can we actually? Even after 10 years of their separation, he was waiting for her to suffer. His family wanted him to start a new life and he could not. I asked him to forgive her and he could not!
He shared that how could he forgive her? When she was so happy in her new life and he was suffering.
There are few things:
- Who are we to decide, how one shall suffer?
- How do we know if she was suffering or not or in what form she was suffering and how much she had suffered?
- She was happy because she decided to be happy. He was miserable because he decided to be miserable.
- He decided that he would be happy when she would suffer as this was he would know that she was wrong.
- Was it an ego satisfaction to prove that he was right and she was wrong?
- He was unhappy because he did not move on and he kept piling up negativity inside her and he was suffering for years in that.
- He needed to forgive because he deserved peace.
- He was wasting his precious life while he waited for her to suffer.
He worked on forgiveness and moved on. In one year, he felt much happier and better. What happened to her? Who was he to decide and if he waited then he hadn’t moved on. HE built a new life after that. He got married again and was happy in his new life.
Do not wait for others to suffer and waste your precious life. If they have wronged you, let Universe decide. You simply pick your lesson and move on!
