You can be better by focussing on yourself being better.

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On e gentleman asked that how can he improve his life and I asked him, what do you mean by improvement? He thought for a while and did not know the answer. Another one asked, how can he have a better health? And what is the meaning of that he did not know? A lady asked, how could she have …

Don’t be afraid of doing good in life.

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Few incidents I can recall right now.. Doctor was not ready to touch the patient as patient’s attendants were very aggressive. He was scared that what if something would happen to patient, they would beat him up. One gentleman was not ready to give any food in charity as once he had given food cooked for him to his servant. …

You need to trust yourself, before anyone can else trust you.

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His father was a big businessman. He was always told that he had to match his father’s standards. Everyone’s constant comments made him check himself always. He always wondered if he would be able to do. He kept working hard also for the same reason but could never build his confidence. He did well in his business degree and whatever …

When people speak about you, they define themselves not you.

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Are you feeling mad within your mind? Are you feeling devalued because someone else said so? Are you wondering why others are the way they are, kind of so mean Do you want to say something and you do not say anything and later on you keep moving that conversation in your head and you keep reconversing, this is what …

Presence of love makes it complete otherwise it’s incomplete.

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Few days back, met a gentleman in 50s. he was smiling and happy and he peacefully said that his life was so complete. I asked the depth and reason behind that statement and he shared his life experiences. He said that I have seen all kinds of times and I expect that. Everyone has own journey. But then he shared …

May everything gets resolved with love today.

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We fight with our loved ones We get hurt by our loved ones People whom we do not love cannot hurt us. We get hurt because we have certain expectations from our loved ones and when they are not met, we get hurt. We hold back things on ego. But we do not like that negativity against our loved ones. …

Whatever brings love will heal you.

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She got married in a joint family. Her mother told her to keep quiet and be tolerant as this is a part of the process. She kept tolerating everything, everyone’s criticism and she always suppressed her anger. Not feeling angry is different but not expressing anger is different. So in a way she suppressed her anger and suppressing anger is …