No one liked her. She grew up with lots of pampering. Everyone loved her in her family. She got everything she laid her eyes on. Her mother asked her father not to pamper her so much. But her father said that she was the princess and a princess deserves everything. So a day came when she went to hostel for higher studies. Now, no one cared for her. Everyone found her very self centered and mean. So no one wanted to be her friend. Despite of her offering lots of treat and free lunches. Because being with her meant she would treat them like their slave. So she joined an image consulting group. Where she realized how her behavior had to be so that people would like her. But her thought process did not change. So she would alter her behavior for few days and when the person would come closer to her, she would be same. She got married and everyone stayed away from her. She faced many relationship problems. Then one day she realized that there must be some big problem with her that everyone was staying away from her. At that time she took help and she realized that her basic thought process had to be changed before her behavior.
This is about behavior. But there is more to it. We are creating our lives with our thoughts. Our relationships, our finances, job, health and everything else. If we really want to change something, the way is inside to outside not outside to inside. We need to change how we think about something and that’s when actual change will begin in life.
For money, remove the thought process of lack. bring in gratitude and love and abundance in thoughts. For relationships, bring in love and gratitude. Start seeing the good side in your thoughts and then you will not have to pretend to like a person. For health, in your mind focus on health and you will be healthy.
Change your thoughts to change your life.
