Common story. Two brothers or friends started business together. One started taking out more money and also started manipulating the accounts. The partnership fizzled out. The business also started failing.
Wife started lying to her husband for building a friendship online. Gradually, he also started doubting and many things tumbled out including his own affair in the past, his ignorance of her and finally the relationship ended.
It is not only about infidelity. One couple separated after 20 years of marriage and wife said that I cannot trust him. He keeps lying all the time. If he says something i do not know if he is planning something else. He is a dishonest man.
When spoken to a couple married for years, the first thing they shared is, people can tolerate anything. They can tolerate external forces but when you lose trust, you just lose everything. You cannot be with that person. The first question you get is for whom are you bearing all this shit? The person you can’t even trust.
Similarly, when I spoke to business partners for years, I asked them, why and they said that we trust each other. I know he has never lied to me. I can trust him with my life.
Big Question: Would you like to be with a person whom you cannot trust, whether it is a business partnership, a company or a product, life partnership or friendship. I guess the answer is NO.
It’s not easy. We need to have lots of courage to accept things sometimes. We need to accept still. Sometimes we all mess up and make mistakes but we need to stay with truth.
It is never one time. Once we start, it’s there and we get into never ending chain of lies. So do not even give yourself an excuse of one time.
Think over. If you really want to have a long term relationship, maintain your honesty. if you care, you will be honest. if you do not, it will anyway end. Why so?
Because it will start filling up things with negative energy.
Because the other person will sense it out eventually.
Because Universe is watching over everyone’s back.
Because Karma does come back.
So if you want any relationship for life, maintain your honesty.
