Few days back my maid looked very stressed out and I asked her, why are you so stressed today. She said I am just tired. When I asked her the reason, she said that it’s simply life and nothing else. I asked her if she wanted to share something and she did not. But yesterday, she came and said that day you had asked, so I am sharing today. Her husband is mentally retarded and she is the one who takes care of all the things at home. Whether it’s managing the finances or domestic chores, including children. I asked her why did you choose to marry such man and she said that her father had died and her uncle chose her husband for her. I told her, if she ever needs something she can ask. I wondered that how everyone is fighting a battle in life and then another one inside because there is no one to talk to.
Whenever I have touched upon anyone’s personal life, I have felt that everyone is getting suffocated and they are wondering inside if they can go and say all this to anyone in life. They want to take out their anger, frustration, cry and still feel they were not wrong and they are doing all right and everything would be fine. They want to know that they are brave instead of complaints.
I would say be there for your loved ones. Do not judge, do not ask them to forget the past, just hear and you never know what kid of support you would be providing to your loved ones.
Today a warm and healing hug with lots of love to everyone because, everyone is fighting a battle and want to take their heart out. I want to hold your heart and tell you that, you are doing good and you will be fine. You are being watched over and you are not bad. You cannot fulfill everyone’s expectations but you can do what all you can do. Even if people are talking bad of you, it’s their choice. You are very strong and you will be fine.
