A gentleman was signing up a business deal. However, before signing up he was having all the doubts about his partner. When he consulted me, I asked him few questions:
Do you want this partnership?
Yes but I do not know …may be I can try for 2 months
Are you happy…I was but now I have my doubts
What is at stake
He would be investing and I would be working
What is your intention here…
I have no idea
Where are you focusing
Talking to all my friends taking different perspectives about him
But have they met this gentleman (The partner)
No…(Then who are these people to have an opinion about him)
What is your experience so far with him
He has been great. Whatever he has promised uptil now he has completed that. He keeps me in high regards.
What does your heart say…he is very good and this partnership would be good for me.
Then from where are these questions coming…No answer
I wonder even if the first meeting will be successful with so many conflicts in mind. So what should be done:
We can create a check point in our life:
1. What do we desire
2. What is our intention behind that
3. What is our motivation behind that (If its positive like happiness or love or negative like insecurity, fear jealousy etc)
4. Are we focusing on what we desire
5. Are we grateful for having this and desiring this
6. Do we have a positive image of what we desire
We should proceed if answers to all these questions are positive and full of love. If we feel any negativity, we should work on that remove it and then proceed again. A conflicted mind would always create a conflicted life.
It is very important to have clarity of what do we desire. It is like you go out shopping and you have no idea what you want. You would end up spending extra time, buying what you do not need or you may not buy anything at all. You will come back with the wastage of resources and frustrated and tired. We do exactly same thing here. We do not know what we want and we end up wasting our resources. Because our energy is not channelized. Once we have a clarity and we focus on that, our energy gets channelized instead of being scattered. Any negativity blocks it and feeling of love nurtures it. So ask yourself everyday, what do I desire (Do not feel guilty, feel great about it) and let it flow with love and happiness. Universe also is conspiring to making you further happy!
