One lady came back from her friend’s place and started saying few bad things like what a wastage of money. She has to show it always, how much money she has! I asked her, what is the problem, she has money or you do not have what she has. Would you not spend if you had that kind of money. She was quiet!
Similarly, one of my friends banged his car with a super luxury car. HE was saying all bad words. He did not say a word about driving skills. He kept talking bad about rich guys and their attitude etc. I wondered, if it was again stemming from jealousy!
Similarly, a lady who was a home maker always felt bad when her sister in law got her salary. She always tried making her life difficult at home. Like she would make sure her sister in law would not get food at home like rest of the family. Her sister in law did not get enough space to keep her things etc. It was again an inferiority complex which was coming out in the form of jealousy.
There could be so many examples which tells us different emotions behind our different actions. It is true that when we have something and others do not have we feel very proud of that and we have very good things to say like they should appreciate, I had worked hard, I have good Karma etc. But when someone else has what we do not have, do we feel same way? Do we appreciate Karma and hard work? Are we happy in others happiness which we expect from others?
Whenever you see others happy, be aware of your own emotions. Notice few things like:
How do you feel
Why do you feel the way you feel
Is there any negativity?
Is it coming from any feeling of lack or inferiority complex
What is that you have rather than looking at what others have (No one has everything but everyone has something.)
How can you solve your emotions?
How can you share others happiness?
May be by giving you happiness through others, Universe is opening up new doors of happiness to you!
