No one wants to be hurt in this world. We all want to be loved. Still we feel more hurt than loved. We feel we have a right over all the people around us and everything is our born right. How our parents should live their lives, how our kids should live their lives, how friends should be and we like defining everyone. We also like to define what all they should do for us. We take things too much for granted and we expect a lot. Wife should do this, mother should do this my son should do this and so on. When those expectations are not met we are deeply hurt. We feel angry and frustrated. The biggest victim of our expectation is God. If we have no one else to blame, atleast we can blame God for not giving us what we had wanted in life. However, we do not realise this that in real we have no right over anyone, including the closest family, we cannot define how those people should be, we have control only over self and thus all rights are reserved only for self. More you expect and more miserable you become. We burden ourselves and we burden others. They also feel the weight of our expectations. We stop being free and we bind others too. Why he didnt talk to me when i wanted to talk to me, why she did not respect my mother as per my choice, why my son did not obey me, there are no defined rules. if you ant to be at peace, always remember, you can keep killing yourself over 1000 things but still you have right only over yourself and thus you can expect only from yourself and rest every expectation would bring you misery at some point.
