He had a very bad relationship with his wife. He felt that she was a very bad lady. they had been married for 10 years and dated for 4 years before that. they were blessed with 2 sons. He always commented on her which broke her confidence too. As per him, she had to bring a lot of changes in herself to improve their relationship and life. First, when he came he wanted to convince me that his wife needed help. What turned out was he needed help first. Once he changed himself, their relationship improved.
He wanted his business to grow and he wanted his father to change his approach towards business. He kept trying for years but his father would not change anything. As per him, it had taken him years to set those things and they were perfect. Finally, he started his own business and could see his business growing as per his satisfaction.
He was very unhappy in his job. He was always wondering, what would his life and job be if he had a different boss. Bosses changed, the job changed but nothing inside him changed. It changed for him when he changed his approach towards the job and the way he was working. Instead of putting his focus on his boss, he shifted his focus on how he could work better. What better he could give to his company.
So instead of finding faults in the environment or others, see what are the improvement areas for yourself. Work on them and see the change in your life.
