So many times i meet people who would say, my wife did so to me, my parents did so to me,we all have problems in life and we all face lots of challenges in day to day life…however, how to face those depends on no one but you. Once one of my client told me he can never be happy in his life so I asked him would you like trade in your life with someone whom you think is happy, so that we can start incorporating that and he was stunned. He said, he would never do that, so if he doesn’t want to do that, then why is there a complain? because we create lot of things in our life. i asked him what would make him happy, he said when he would have the things which we made a list and then Ia asked him whats the guarantee they would make him happy as everything comes in a package, and then he realised he actually has everything an he is creating all the stupid thoughts in his mind only. He left the session as a happy man and i am glad for that.
everything in our life starts from our thoughts, some people are happy even in situation which make others curse the things..if you are following someone else’s orders, do not forget you are the one to execute, and you have the power to stand against something which you do not want but out of own fears especially of the consequences you do not do that…however, you have not seen the future and you cannot know what would happen..
Third thing people talk about are the miserabilities, here again things start from your thoughts…you always focus on what you do not want in life and do not focus on what you want..does not matter what you want and what you don’t..what you get is what you think about…thats why people who think about what they do not have wud have the same and people who think about what they can have and how they can have get the same..
So change your thoughts to change your life, accept the reason so that you can make the change, if you would blame others for your life, your life would never change..it would stay where it is..
