Met an iron lady. She grew up in a small house and in a very controlled manner learning that she needs someone to take care of her. She always waited for her prince charming. She fell in love and got married. After two years they got divorced but she still believed in true love and that someone will come and will give her eternal love. After that few more affairs and problems. Few more means two more men here. After this, her family/brother also left her saying he can’t be with her as his children are also growing up. That was her wake up call. She felt that she had always waited for someone else to come and correct her life and give her eternal love and complete her but what they have done is just damage her life more. She was better before all such incidents. That day she decided to start working. She started her own business and then she took it upto 800 people working for her. She bought her own house and office. She started supporting many women in her office. Especially the working class, who used to suffer in their husband’s hands. She supported for their education, their household needs but most importantly making them realize that they could take care of themselves.
It is not a woman support page. Neither the purpose is to say all men are bad and all women are good. I have seen many cases otherwise also. I am also not saying being together is bad, it is beautiful too. But do not be with someone for a need, for a reason, to depend on someone. If you want to be with someone, be there for the sake of being together. She could grow after she found her completeness. Till the time she kept waiting for someone else, she was having problems. But when she decided to work it out herself, she found real strength.
Often we would see that if we go to someone, with a feeling of lack, we would meet someone with another feeling of lack. Lack would attract lack. If you really want to be with someone and make it beautiful, find your completeness and then you will meet someone who is complete. So many times I meet people who have been through heart breaks and they want to get into another relationship very quickly. Do not do that. Let yourself heal and become strong. Let yourself be healthy and then goto someone.
Be complete and you will find completeness outside. How? We all are already complete. We have both the energies of male and female. We have eternity inside us. We just have realize this completeness.
