I cannot do this..I cannot think about myself…I have responsibilities…I want this but cannot do it..what would my parents think of it..what would my family think of it..what would society think of it..and what would whole world think of it..who has time for it…the problem is not others..problem is your thoughts..you have built so many limitations around you in your thoughts that you are unable to break them yourself..whatever has to be done by you in this world can be done only by you and you have to decide for it….once you decide no constraint..no boundary…no limitations would exist and you would realise that all these were created by you not anyone else. You have not been able to bring your desires into reality because of your thoughts, your inhibitions. Few days back, I met a person, who did not pursue the career of his choice and joined family business and always dreaded going to the office as he thought this is what his father expected from him and I asked him whether he checked with his father that this is actually what he wanted? He had never..he just assumed in his thoughts and when he checked with his father, his father told him one thing that he never mentioned his wish to his father, he could have pursued what he wanted. We do not express ourselves and hold back from manythings in life just because we have limited ourselves in our thoughts. WE look at others and under estimate own self. So many times I meet people who have a complain that they are unable to impress people and I ask them, even if they have impressed someone, where would it matter in their life, it would change thought process of someone else and you would still remain same, so why to bother self with something which does not matter to you anywhere. WE limit ourselves by thinking what would others think, have you thought, what would you think? Just by looking at others, why are you negating self and then trying to do something so that someone else negates himself by looking at you…just be yourself, say what want, do what you like and you will know how much you are capable of..you are truly capable of achieving anything in this world whatever anyone else has been able to do or is doing..you have limited your potential with your thoughts…you need to break those limitations in your thoughts and then you would realize your true potential..however, your freedom from limitations does not mean you put limitations on someone else..your happiness does not mean someone else’s unhappiness..your expression does not mean you bind someone else..if you have right everyone has equal right too..
