So many times I meet people whose biggest complaint from life is they are lonely. Someone’s wife is not with him, so he is lonely and he feels there is no one who will support him, someone’s wife is with him but still he feels lonely as she is not supportive enough. Even when someone’s wife/partner/family/friend or anyone who is very supportive and keeps saying what may come I am with you in your thick and thin, big question is what has practically changed. Whatever are the situations, they are still same and you still need to find a solution for them on your own. A person is scared of living alone and someone comes and sleeps with him, has it changed anything practically, it has not, but from inside that small child feels that I am not alone, someone is there with me and he is able to sleep. But he is sleeping there on his own and most of the time parents in fact leave the rooms after child drifts to sleep. Same way is life, only your inner child feels that I am being supported, ultimately its you who has to fight the battle. The strength which someone else has to give to you actually is inside you only, the someone else just triggered the strength. You do not need external triggers if you realize that you are the master and you are the doer. If you do not realize, you stop being own master. Now when you look inside, you know, you have never been alone..you have always been there with yourself and when you are always holding own hand, how can you be alone. You become alone when you stop holding your own hand. So you are alone even when you have everyone with you but you are not holding own hand and you are always supported if you are holding own hand even when whole world is standing against you. If you want to be own master, always hold own hand.
