There was a girl who achieved all her goals. It was so beautiful to meet her. She was full of happiness and smiles. She emitted peace. IT was not about big goals it was about achieving what she wanted. I asked her, if she had less problems, how has she been able to focus on what she wanted or didn’t she have other responsibilities, her family support etc.
She smiled and said that it would be ungrateful of me if I would say I had no family support. They were around, still I knew or let’s say I had realized at very young age that it’s me who has to take all the steps in my life without depending on anyone else. If I will wait for someone to do something, then I will keep waiting. I will feel bad and I will lose my energy! Point noted!
Second thing, I have more things to do and have more responsibilities than a normal person would have. It sounds like ego thing but the fact is I have worked like 48 hours in a day. I have worked non stop for years. For me, there were no Sundays or holidays. I had all the responsibilities of family and work together.
I also was in an environment which was mentally disturbing. I used to sit in a lonely corner and cry. Then one day I decided that, it’s a choice I have to make. SO every day, every moment, I can either think about past, make a wasted effort to improve it, solve it or focus on my dream and send energy there. So I chose later. So every moment whenever there will be a disturbing thought, I would remind myself of my goal.
Talking to her was real, practical and inspirational. It was loving and motivating!
So can we all make a decision to think of dreams rather than past?
