She wanted to be recognized, and she wanted everyone to love her. And if she did not receive that, she felt bad. She felt so bad that she would get angry and fight with her family. Her family was scared of going out with her. They wondered what would have to face if they would go out with her. She was stylish but why everyone shall love her? Everyone can sense the energy which she was carrying. The more she thought like that, the more people stayed away from her. And then she got married. And the same thing started happening to her husband. Her family was quiet in front of her but why the husband? So he started saying, you may wear attractive clothes but you are so dark inside. Finally they reached to the point of divorce. And she wondered what had she done.
She contacted her friend, who took her to a therapist. The therapist asked her simply one thing, why everyone shall love her. If you have met yourself at the party, would you have liked yourself? If you feel angry about this and get angry with people who really love you, how long will they love you? They will also stay away from you. You feel bad, how much parents love their daughters and how much love a girl can receive from her husband but what have you given? We receive what we give. So what have you given? What you want from others, you have to give first. And mind it, it needs to be genuine. If it’s just to gain something, then people will also respect you to gain something. She wondered what she had to do?
She followed the route of love and gratitude. She started helping everyone, first with a task and then genuinely. She gave love to everyone, first with a goal but then genuinely. It took some time, but after two years, she could feel that love and respect for herself. She felt loved and respected in her circle. She realized that she was going the wrong way. She had to become what she wanted from others.
Another gentleman, shared his story. He had nothing 20 years back. And he was nothing. HE had his father’s business, but he was not a good human being. And one day, his father died. He tried managing his father’s business, but he could not and it failed. He was left with no money. He then started becoming something. HE felt grateful that how his father was managing everything. He learned what hard work and perseverance was. He learned all the things and then the money came in.
So if you really want to grow in life learn, love, gratitude, forgiveness, honesty, sharing, helping everyone unconditionally, patience and then you will see, how abundance starts flowing in.
