I meet many people who have complaints against life and they always talk about how unfair life has been to them. How they were treated unfairly by people around them and what they did not get in life and most of the time we have a feeling that we deserve much more than what we got. We have so much ego that we want to be right and for that we prove everyone else around us wrong to protect that self created image and when we do not find anyone to blame upon, we blame life as it will give us an inner satisfaction that we are so much right and life is wrong. We are not ready to take the responsibility of own life forgetting that its our life and we have created it.
Amongst the slew of complaints we forget what we already have and what others are doing for us and when you do not realise what you already received and value that, Universe would think that you do not need that and takes it back. Few days back I met a person who had lots of anguish against his brother who always had been a fatherly figure to him but had been abusive also. He had so much anger that he said if I would get a chance I would kill my brother. Now he accepted that whenever he got stuck in a problem, his brother is the one who was always there and took him out. Finally he accepted that he could not do anything in return and actually never thanked his brother or anyone in life for whatever they had done and he just wanted more and more and then they stopped being with him. We become what we give to the Universe. You give hatred and negativity, you become a hated man. So before asking for more, just look around and see what all we already have because we all are tremendously blessed and once you are full of gratitude, you may not need many things and secondly you are ready to receive also because now you have space for that.
