I always say you have to first like yourself so that you can like others also…whenever we like or dislike a person we do not like or dislike the person actually…we like or dislike his qualities….whatever we feel we should have or what we lack we try to find the people who also do not have those qualities so that we can support our ego that yes I am better than others and others also do not have what I do not have…however, if you accept yourself unconditionally you will not impose your insecurities or feeling of lackness on others. We all want to be so much in life and keep blaming circumstances, family, people for not being such. However, the truth is what you are is your decision. We all are shaped up by lots of things in life and while growing up we also accept the thing that I can do nothing about the situation or myself. However. the truth is we are unable to take the responsibility of own life and we keep blaming everything and everyone around us and if we don’t find any scapegoat we blame destiny. Our ego cannot accept that if there is something wrong it is because of us not because of anything else in life. Every person is 100% capable of reaching to any position in life with his self belief and power. You can have any desired quality you wish for..however, for anything you wish for you need to have self belief, generally we have a tendency, we think more of things which we do not have instead of what we have or what we desire for…the difference is when you think I do not have that…you think negative..you breed feelings of lackness …however, when you think, I want that..you work for that…which takes you toward what you wish for. If you do not like something do away with it..if you like something bring that to yourself..accept your own responsibility so that you can grow instead of blaming things around you…whatever you are in life is decided by you….and if you do not do that..you will never be able to know who you are..you will always feel helpless and become someone else…once you realize..you will know your real strength.
