Whenever we get a chance we start speaking and mostly we want to speak about what all bad we have gone through us. We call it ventilation. As soon as we find someone with whom we can share the darkness inside us, where we feel we have lots of pains and we have suffered so much and everyone here is out to make us go through more and more pain and life itself is pain…we start pouring out..we start complaining…Government shall not be like this, country shall not be like this, my life shall not be like this, even the tree standing in front of the house shall not be like this…if I would start counting the list would be endless, the list of the things which we feel should not exist or should exist ina different way which is again the interpretation of same thing, whether it shall exist or not, when you want to change the form, it means you do not want the first one..now the big question is who decides what shall exist and what shall not exist. Did you create the things? If no, then anyway who are you and if you feel you did that, look deeply, did you actually create? Are you the Creator? Well..you are no one and you actually dont exist..the creator is the one who created and if you have no role in something then how can you decide about that? If you want to decide about something, before that you need to realise that you cannot decide about something happening on the field as a spectator. Once you get onto the field, you would realise that there is no difference between you are creator, you would realise the oneness and the you would know, you are the creator. Once the duality dissolves anyway you will not say this shall not exist as you will stop existing only the existence would exist. After that, everything would be perfect.