He was talking about his boss for one hour. He was only complaining. Finally, when he took a break, I asked him, how many bosses have you worked with until now? In a career of 20 years, he had worked with some 12 bosses. So anytime, have you met a good boss or it’s just all bad? He shared a few good bosses and their qualities. Then I asked him, do you share with everyone the good ones or the bad ones? He was a little embarrassed and said that only bad ones.
Now, look at it this way:
You have two qualities of seeds. Good seeds and bad seeds. Bad seeds will also give a yield but it will be of bad quality. Good seeds will definitely give a good yield. So which one you would like to plant for the future? HE thought for a while and said, of course, I would plant good seeds. What’s the purpose of planting bad seeds. Exactly, what’s the purpose? But we all have been doing same when we start spreading bad deeds.
Our thoughts are seeds of the future. We create whatever we focus upon and then we recreate. When we talk to others, we create a chain reaction of creation because they also start planting the same seeds. So when we start spreading bad words, we actually plant bad seeds.
In this scenario, you are creating more bad bosses because you are so. focused on bad qualities or things that you do not appreciate. Because it’s first initiated by you, it’s impacting you most.
So think of good things you like in your bosses, talk about them, share with others. Soon you will see the difference. Very soon he switched the job and in the next job he really had a nice boss. He wondered if he was creating a bad one!
It’s for everything. Boss, partner, colleague, work, shopkeepers, employees, always spread the good deeds.
