One gentleman said that I feel victim of life. I feel everyone victimises me. He had similar self demeaning thoughts. But one thing was very clear, he was not feeling in control of life. He felt that everyone else was pulling his strings. And because everyone else was pulling his strings, he could never feel that justice was being done for him. Because no one can do things for you the way you would do things yourself. Once a lady said that she was unable to hire any servant because she always felt dissatisfied. No one cleaned her home as she would do! And yes it can never happen. Either we have to accept and compromise or we have to do things ourselves. We need to draw a line between what we can accept and how much we can do ourselves and which area of life needs more energy.
So coming back to the same gentleman. I asked him if there is an empty chair and there are a lot of people standing what would happen? They would grab the chair as soon as they can. This is how energy is. Everyone needs a piece of energy. If someone is not using his or her own energy, let’s say it’s up for grab which we do not realize. We are using this energy with our thoughts and power of creation. We are powerful creators. And when our energy is being used by others, we feel like a victim.
To pull our own strings, we have to look at few aspects:
We create own life with our own thoughts.
If we let others control our thoughts they start controlling our lives.
Our negative thoughts will create negative life. Our positive thoughts will create positive life.
We cannot get positive thoughts on their own except rarely. We need to make an effort.
So we need to write down what we want and how we want.
We need to make a detail description of what all do we want to think about. And in that focus on what you want rather than what you do not want.
If anytime you find yourself thinking otherwise (Know that you are harming your self) change those thoughts.
Affirm, speak, write, take a break, do whatever you like but change that. It’s your own life and it is your own responsibility.
Blaming others and feeling
Once you become incharge of own thoughts, you will see how positively you have started controlling and creating your life.
