They were married for 10 years and now they wanted to be separate. First they got married against everyone and now, they wanted to be separated after three children and 10 years of marriage.
The man did not want to let her go but did not know how to stop everything. Everytime, they started any discussion, it turned into a bad argument. Finally he did not know what to do, he surrendered. HE asked God to guide and help him save his family. While doing so, he started crying. He forgot all the issues. HE forgot that there have been fights or what she said. When he was little more composed and settled, he walked towards his wife. HE asked her to stop and she wanted to say something but could not. Seems like love inside him woke up love inside her too. HE told her that he did not want her to go. She started crying and said the same thing. Somehow, in that conversation without saying anything, they resolved many things. The only thing which was required to solve this was they had to keep the ego aside and wake up the love inside him. HE had to stop thinking, that what all she was doing, what all was wrong, all he had to remember was how much he loved her.
We are stuck in situations with various people and at various times. Till the time we keep calculating in mind, we can never solve it. What this calculation is like, who did what and when! But once we recall, who we are rather than what is happening, we will see everything will get resolved. Our energy speaks before you. When we walk with ego, it triggers ego in everyone. When we walk with love, it triggers love in everyone.
So if you really want to solve anything, solve it with love. Wake up the love inside you. Recall your own most loving side and time. Remember who you are rather than whats happening. You will see the change!
