One gentleman who was socially accomplished, approached saying that I am looking for happiness. I have everything. I have money, fame, I have people who recognize me, I have a nice family but still I am not happy. I am not peaceful. Though my family says they love me but I do not feel I am loved. So was looking for:
Love, peace and happiness
Most of us are searching for same. We try to find happiness through various ways. We keep doing things to be happy and still we remain unhappy. We get married, buy big houses, cars thinking that it will make us happy but alas. So how can we be happy?
We want others to maintain the decorum so that we can stay peaceful. We want children to keep quiet, partner to keep shut, no one to question us and we still keep searching for peace. Why? (What if looking at something triggers old memories)
We have family and friends around us. For a socially accomplished person he/she receives love and respect from others too. But still we feel we are not loved.
The answer to every question lies within. If you are peaceful within, you will no longer have to create peace around you. You have to be peaceful with who you are, what you have, what all you have accomplished, you need to let go of what’s not serving you, you need to forgive yourself for wrong you have done, you need to forgive those who have wronged you and you have to keep working on it. It is your responsibility to be peaceful not someone else.
Similarly, we need to understand, we cannot find happiness sin things. We need to be happy in the very moment and at very place. You also need to be a source of love for yourself rather than expecting it from others.
While having similar discussion with another lady who was just entering into youth said that everything means everything. So how should get a right partner when it is going to be an arranged marriage?
Yes it is a very relevant point. But for that we need to understand few things:
1. What type of partner we want (Often we do not have a clarity)
2. How do we feel about everything
3. Are we that partner ourselves?
If we can be the partner we desire, we would start vibrating at the similar frequency. When we would be what we want in our life then we would start attracting similar people. Same thing goes for money. We want money but we operate from the thought process of lack. Money means abundance. once we start feeling abundant, once we become abundant in thought process, we would start having the money to. We do not have to desire it, we just have to be that.
Whatever we are looking for is coming from within. The source is inside us. We just have to realize this.
