We want that everyone should love us, others should accept us the way we are, however, the big question is have you accepted yourself the way you are and do you love yourself? These things have to be unconditional. What we lack we expect from others and what we lack, whatever we get it can never satisfy us.
We put lots of ifs and buts on us and this is how we have been trained by our family may be they wanted us to be a social person, however, they forgot that in making us social they are making us someone else which we are not. When we become someone else, we lose connection with the self and we don’t like ownself then. So we start expecting this love from others. However, whatever we get, this void can never be fulfilled and thus we always lack and keep expecting from others. Increasing our stress and frustration getting further away from ownself, it become s vicious circle. Come out of that and accept yourself, be proud of yourself and love yourself with no ifs and buts. You are you and no one else can be you.
