Most of the people I meet who are distressed in love have one thing in common…they do a lot for their loved ones and which is a very nice thing but the thing which is not so nice is that they impose same thing on their loved ones too. I have done so much for her or him and see in return he/she could not do this much. They do not look at what other person has done in his own way. Everyone is a unique individual and everyone has own way of expressing his/her feelings. Some express everything freely and some hold them back or some may do things in a different way but if something is not happening as per the way you had wanted does not mean that other person does not love you enough or does not love you as much as you do.
When we impose our way on the other person we take away the freedom of other person to be himself or herself. We want that person should call me at this time or should tell me everything because I do or many things like that but why are you doing it? You did it because you wanted to do it not because your loved ones had asked you to do it. You had the freedom to express your love you way then why you shall not give the freedom to the other person too? How do you feel when you are free, you feel liberated and happy and same way love also feels liberated and happy. If you let other person be himself even his/her love would feel liberated and happy and it will bring harmony in relationship. Just let him/her be free..do not imprison people with your thoughts and expectations..let it be a free world where the love is flowing freely. Freedom will not lessen the love..infact it will let it flourish.
