One person called me up and told me that he loves a girl and he is afraid that what if she loves her truly or not, what if she is cheating him, what if she is using him and the big question is why does he love her, so that she loves him back in that case anyway he never loved her, he loved himself and has certain needs which he wants to be fulfilled through that girl and he is afraid now that those needs will not be fulfilled..then its no love…another person called up saying he has done lots of things which he should not have done because he wanted things to happen certain way and to make them happen particular way he kept doing unscrupulous things and this is what happens, we all get attached to results and there is no doer, we just look at results and do all the things which we shall not and suffer too when things fall as per what we have wanted we still suffer, when they dont, we still suffer and when we are in process we suffer with ifs and buts, we are never at peace, and we keep suffering and just because we are not doing anything, we just keep thinking….and when we can have fun when we do things, instead of getting attached to results if we focus on what best we can do, we can never go wrong and when we start doing we stop suffering, we are suffering because we are not doing…so instead of focusing on results focus on what you can do because then every moment is so much fun..
