We need to see the best of each other to experience the best of the relationship.

They were always fighting. And they were always mad at each other. They were telling each other all the time what was wrong with the other person. But they wanted to have a good relationship. They were married just for 2 years and they did not want to be with each other.

So when they both came to meet, they were blaming each other, how bad the other person is, how the other person could not do what a husband or wife should have done and after listening to their fight, I asked them to write down what’s good about other person.

They could not write immediately because for two years their focus was just on what’s wrong. Moreover, whatever, we focus upon grows stronger. So they were bringing out worst in each other by focusing on what’s wrong. It took them two weeks finally to start seeing good in each other. They both were surprised that they never appreciated each other enough or et all. They realized that the other person has good qualities and it’s a good thing if we are told of good things. It’s good to hear appreciation instead of criticism all the time. They accepted that they were told in their upbringing that we shall be able to take criticism so that we can grow all the time and following this, they started criticizing each other. It’s a good thought but where is the line? If all the time we are criticised how would we stay motivated?

Finally they were happy and peaceful and they were seeing best of each other. It helped them growing personally and also in relationship too. They did not realize that they were breaking each other. They accepted that after this, they were feeling very peaceful in relationship and were wondering if life could be so beautiful. n yourself.

Start seeing best of people. Start seeing best in yourself. Start seeing best in your kids. Start seeing best in everyone and everything. From a changed perspective, you will be able to get best of life. If you will find worst, you will get worst. If you will find best, you will get best. Whatever you would look for you would get.