She was depressed. She was cranky. She was insecure. She was suffering. She had inferiority complex. She always commented bad on people making them feel smaller. In job also she faced many issues. She schemed against many people so that they do not grow in job. She felt that if she could make others look bad, she would look good to the management and she could enjoy the perks and get promoted too. But how long can this happen? Sooner or later everyone finds out the truth. So everyone became aware of her trueself gradually and they maintained a distance too. But then the environment would become so difficult for her that she could never grow and had to leave the job. because she was changing jobs very quickly, she could practically never grow in job.
So we are receiving, what we are giving. She was trying to hold back others and she was getting held back. She did not know why it was happening but deep down she knew also. However, she did not know how she could break the cycle.
So first thing, she had to change her thought process. She thought it’s a competitive world and if someone else would get the promotion she would never get. The thing is that this is an abundant Universe. It has unlimited supply of resources. May be she was always getting a job because of her thought process where there were limited resources.
Second thing, she had to stop bringing others down. If she wanted her promotion or herself to grow, she had to focus on her growth rather than others coming down. She she started doing that.
Now, she had to make genuine efforts to make others feel better and help them grow. She started doing that and what she realized was that she no longer had fears and things like that. She was feeling insecure because she saw others as threats. But when she started seeing others as a partner in growth, she no longer felt threatened. So she started helping others in being better.
With changes in her, she felt better and she felt everyone’s love. She got the promotion also, she she wanted for a long time. Also, she felt that her health was improving.
So by helping others actually we help ourselves.
