My daughter is almost seven. She looked irritated these days and it was irritating everyone. because she was expressing her irritation by screaming and shouting every day and hitting her twin. So I wondered if she was bothered about something. I asked her if she was upset. has someone said something and many more things. She finally shared that in her school, her friends or class mates were not being nice to her and how they were telling her bad things about her. So after she had taken out much pain and understood, she was smiling and her behavior changed.
She was 26, her father sent her to counseling as she was very irrational for many months. During the counseling, the girl shared that she had a breakup and her family did not know and the boy sometimes calls her just to say, we are only friends and friends can check upon each other. But she becomes uncertain if he wanted to be together or not. Well, he did not and he was not genuine. When she understood that, things were solved.
He had a happy life and he had a great relationship with his family. But lately, he was having a lot of anger bouts. After many months, he told his wife, there were financial losses and he was worried of losing the home. Once she understood, she asked kids also to support him even when he was angry rather than all of them complaining to each other.
Make an effort, whatever is the relationship, whatever is the age.
