I saw a mother shouting at her 5 years old son. She was tired and he was tireless! I wondered even I do same. And I know she loves him, how can she not! We all do whatever we can for our children. Saw a gentleman shouting at his mother, he loves her too. But he took out his frustration on her.
A boss shouting at his employee for small thing and then feeling bad. i asked him, if he did not want to have that employee and he said that I cannot manage without him and he is a critical one.
We all love each other, we all have so much. But somewhere we run out of patience and energy to deal with the things in life and then our stress comes out on the softer targets. It would never come out on the people who are stronger than us. It comes out on employees, children, wife or mothers or someone who would just receive it!
Believe me we all love them most. I wish we have the strength and patience to treat them right and handle the stress in a different way. I wish we can express more love to the ones we feel more love for. I wish we can tell them the way we feel about them. But we can! So let’s do it. Not as a formality but genuinely the way we feel about them. They know and they want to know more. They have a right to know more because this is who we all are. They are waiting for us to see in a loving mode. They want our love that is why they are taking our stress. They understand but does not mean they do not want love from us. We cannot take them for granted. We shall express more to them. To all the loving mothers, wives, bosses and everyone whose heart is full of love.