We do the maximum for our family. We do not like to hear anything negative about our family. We cannot tolerate anything about our family. On the other hand, we mess maximum with our family only.
Some people ignore them. Some people take family for granted. Some people hurt their family most. But do our families deserve anything like that?
Some time back, a couple came over. They had many issues. The major issue was, he was never spending time with his family. He had a very big business. He was always focused on his business. His wife always supported him for that. However, whenever he came back home he never spent that time with his wife. He immediately would leave to meet his friends. His wife raised the point that he could spend time with them also but when he would spend time with me? Why are we living together if we cannot spend time together? She left and he wanted kids and her back. But could he get them back?
In another scenario, a couple had two children. The husband was mostly traveling. They had started their business from zero. They had seen the toughest times together. He worked hard to give a better life to his family. His wife had multiple affairs and finally, they were separated. He shared that I have lost the strength to forgive her. But after finally losing her family she wanted him back as she realized how loving and supporting he was. But this time the loss was permanent.
A gentleman was going through financial troubles. He was just starting his career. Every day he would shout at his mother and blame his father for not doing enough for him. One day he found out that his mother had a terminal disease. It took him years to handle that depression.
Our family is our support system. our family is our shield. Our family is where we fall back on, in life. It takes years to create a family. Value it, love it, consider it as the most precious gift of God rather than taking it for granted. Without family, life would be like a barren land. Do not spoil every thing for some momentarily pleasure. Love your family, respect it, value it.
