One 21 years old boy had a breakup. His girlfriend left him after 7 years of relationship. She said that I have always known you and only you. I haven’t been with anyone else in my life. How do I know you are the best for me. Though these words mean many things and in such situations we keep dissecting every word again and again but the fact was he was unable to handle the situation. Even after 4 years of this, he could not face the world and himself. More and more he thought about that, more and more he kept finding faults in himself. This kept tarnishing his self image. But his heart also had to see the light of day and one day while crossing a street he saw a small boy crying. He asked him why are you crying, the boy said that my best friend left me. He tried consoling that boy and said that people who leave you they did not value you and why do you want to cry over someone who does not value you. While saying those words to the little boy he felt like he was saying those to himself. The younger one felt better after having a comforting chat and the bigger one too.
While going through the biggest of financial problems, a girl gave a part of money to the orphanage as they had called up for help. She felt that how would she manage as she was living with parents. People and children in the orphanage blessed her a lot and she felt that atleast she was of some use. Situations in life come and go but memories stay with us. Her situation also solved but when ever she felt low after that, she remembered those blessings and it always gave her strength to fight any odd.
There could be thousands of incidences to share where someone was able to overcome own pain by helping someone. This Universe is designed in such a beautiful way that we all are a part of each other and we all have to be there for each other. No one can survive in isolation or without helping. If we do not, we start choking. A tree has to give fruits and there is no other option. A river has to give water and keep flowing to keep it fresh. The sun has to give light or it would have a blast within itself. If we start stacking up, the fruits would be rotten and water would be dirty. Similarly, if we do not share, or we have a stand still, we would start becoming dirty. To keep ourselves fresh, we have to give, there is no other option. We have forgotten to share and that is why pain is increasing.
So be there, be love, give love, receive love…..
