So this lady called up, who was totally drunk and called up at the middle of the night. Her husband wanted to divorce her. I asked for the reason. She said because as per him she was not taking care of her responsibilities like his parents, children and home. No book says a lady has to do. It’s her life, one life and she has every right to live it the way she desired.
Yes, she has then who was stopping her? But what if her husband divorced her? See, you have one life and you can live it the way you want. But you are forcing everyone around to do that. You want him to earn money for you but not to take care of him. You want him to give you everything but you do not want to give what he wants. how fair is that? Why should he earn money for you? If it’s your life then manage everything. Why you want him not to divorce you? He also has one life and he also would like to live it as per him.
So what shall we do?
See we all are a part of the system. We all are connected. We cannot break the chain and if we break it, we need to work independently. So what shall be done?
Find a balance. Do the right things. Do you feel peaceful? If not then there is something wrong. So do things which make you feel peaceful. So you mean I shall stay at home, take care of all. I did not say that. i said, do the things which make you feel peaceful. So she changed her life style. She realized earlier she was living for people outside home. She had become their prisoner. What would they think, she wanted to prove herself to them etc. But when she focused more on home, she realized she felyt much relieved.
Similarly, there was a gentleman, who always believed that until he would do some kind of unscrupulous activities in business, he cannot earn enough. But he was never peaceful. He was never happy and his health also suffered a lot. The only way to improve was to redeem. But it was difficult to break that mold. However, he did. After 3 years, he felt, he could create a righteous life, and he felt grateful for it. He felt much more peaceful and happy.
Do the right thing. Way of living a good life is always same. We all know it. Have faith. do the right thing. Helpothers. live with love. Live in harmony. And everything will be good.
