I met someone few days back and he was very upset that his two daughters do not listen to him and they want to do what they have wished..he said that he knows best for them..there are immature to understand their own well being and then the big question..how he knows..he said he has the experience..fair enough..accepted…but they also have equal right to learn from their own mistakes and that is how we mature and grow in life..second thing…they are into this world because you wanted to have children and you already had that joy of creation now they are own individual…look at them..they also have same emotions and they also want to be treated as an individual. You are there as a parent but you do not own their life. they are no lesser than you in terms of individuality. Its not only about children, its also about anyone, servant, the person who is working for you, I just wonder about the plight of the ladies who are being treated as an object, they also have lots of dreams and desires and they have equal right to be happy..so many daughter in laws have to find their happiness in their family being happy from them, no one cares what do they want..I met an afgani girl and she told me she cannot even hold her head straight in front of her husband, she has to keep it bent, do you feel happy when you make someone else do that including your child..well if it is that, then nothing can give you false pride and vanity than this..everyone is equal and is a complete individual, so treat every one equally.
