One gentleman asked a world famous question..
I want everyone to like me how can it be possible?
If I am always worried about what others are thinking of me, then I can’t be peaceful.
Then what should I do?
It’s true that if we are always focused on what others are thinking we are always worried. Second thing, we can never control. So whatever efforts we do, we would always be judged. But yes, there is also a way so that everyone likes us and that way is through love. Before we act or we say, we can ask ourselves, am I kind. Am I loving.
To think that others have to like me, I have to be better than others, it’s ego. However, to be kind and loving is in our hands and tat’s divine.
So how about a child who is very mischievous?
We can be kind in our intentions. Sometimes to stop someone from doing something harmful, we need to get little strict. So we need to ask ourselves, am I strict here to punish or to stop the child from doing bad things, so that he can have a better future. If the answer is latter one, then go ahead. perhaps, that’s why a mother’s intentions are never questioned even when she slaps a child.
How can we maintain same thing in a competitive world?
If the whole world is bad as per you, then you do not have to be bad. Second thing, with a change in your own intentions, you would feel and see a change in others intentions too. If you would get cooperative, you would find others cooperating with you too.
Be kind, e loving and you will be loved always.
