We all want to be happy and that is the only purpose of doing anything. Someone wants a good job, so that he can have a high salary and he wants a high salary so that he can maintain a good life style and by maintaining a good life style he would feel happy as he feels he would be successful. Someone wants to do better than others atleast better than people around him and when he is able to win the race, he feels happy. Someone feels, my family is happy because of me so I should be happy too. Someone would feel happy in making others happy by bringing smile on someone else’s face. Someone might go to Jungle to find happiness. Everyone has own frame of happiness and sometimes the things which we had thought should give us happiness do not give us happiness, why is it so? You may not feel happy even after having a lavish lifestyle, a happy family to count upon and having outcompeted everyone else, still you find something is missing and that is happiness, why is it so?
Actually you cannot do something with a purpose of happiness and be happy because by the time you would achieve that, you would have a different frame of reference and you might feel something is still missing from your life. Happiness is in everything you do and your approach toward life. How you look at life and how you look at people. If you think you can be happy in car then you cannot be happy in scooter, however, if you decide where does it matter, you are doing your best and one day you would have, so you would be happy now also and then also. If you want to be really happy, be happy with yourself and what you do, if you are not happy with yourself you can never be happy does not matter what you have and what you do. So if after doing something, you are not feeling happy then why are you doing that, the very purpose is lost and that is because of the reason that you had to feel happy while doing that…like you want to be happy with job..so be happy when you are in office, in everything you do, if you keep cursing your job all day and then want to be happy when you get a salary check you will not be and even if it manages to bring a smile on your face, it would just be for that moment, it will not drown you with happiness. So be happy in everything you do to be truly happy.
