One gentleman who really loved his wife but could not care for her in initial years of marriage was struggling to keep the marriage together. He was busy travelling and working and his wife was alone at home. She was actually not alone but she was with his family. She did not find any support from his family. On top of that they were against her mostly and treated her like an outsider rather than a member of family who needed emotional support in her husband’s absence.
She decided to shift out when it became difficult for her to live with them and as her husband did not have much time, one day she met his friend and got into an affair with him. After 2 years the affair came out in open and the gentleman was shattered. He wanted to forgive knowing all the conditions but he was unable to. However, he knew that he would not be able to live with her, so he did not know what to do. Living with her everyday brought that anger out everyday.
Few questions he had to answer:
What would he have done if he was in her place?
Did he ever get into any one night stand or paid relationship when he was travelling all this while?
If he leaves her, what would he do?
After all the anger and everything love took over as he saw her love also and also that how love only had made her feel further lonely. She could not talk to anyone for years and no one gave her even one word of sympathy.
When he looked at this whole scenario with love, he was more loving to his wife. He realized that how much pain she had been through in past years of their marriage. He was able to forgive and give her more love saying its compensation for all those years.
Its only love which can heal any damaged relationship. Infact love heals everything. If we want to improve any relationship, the only solution is to bring in more love. It would heal all wounds, all problems. Situation needs love, who brings it does not matter. Heal your relationships, your life, your body with love.
